Dear Idella,
Here's one for you. What makes a happy writer? I always thought being happy with my writing had to do with how many words I wrote in a day, how quickly I got a project done. The truth is, happiness isn't about the quantity of work produced, but the quality of the work done and the time spent doing it.
Michael Hauge talks about character identity and essence. And, he suggests these two things are often at war with one another.
Lately, I've been thinking a lot about what it means to be an author. Identity...the mask we present to the world. Essence...that inner spark that defines us. What is my identity and essence? I have a suspicion, if we could understand these two things about ourselves, we could be happy writers.
Like you Idella, my identity is being the good caretaker...a carefully crafted mask that lets the world see only so much. My essence, on the other hand, is the determined novelist, that most curious of creatures, who finds a glimmer of understanding in the characters she writes about. Digging, prodding, uncovering the deepest secrets of the human soul as I write the great American novel, that's what makes me a happy writer.
What makes you happy?

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I agree with Darla: It's the community to which I belong that gives me the greatest joy and contentment.
Thanks for being provoking, Su!!!
Thanks Kaylin :) When I look at the bright colors I have to smile. It's so unlike me - the girl who wears mostly black and white - isn't it?
Thanks Wen. At our mini con last weekend, I think it was Bob Mayer who said, perhaps it's time to step up and be a little afraid. That's the only way we're going to discover who we really are as writers. I think I agree with him.
Bless you Jessie. You remind me why I got into writing in the first place. Forward Ho! I say :D